Gracefully Step into Your Power!

Create Joy, Love and Abundance At Any Age!

You are the leader and the designer of your life!

Imagine, you could…

• Feel confident, abundant, and charismatic at any age!

Feel heard, seen, acknowledged and accepted at work and at home!

• Have the communication tools and skills to resolve issues quickly!

• Set healthy boundaries to get the respect, stability and bond you want!

• Feel deep, passionate and intimate connection with your partner!

•  Feel successful, fulfilled and happy no matter what!

If You want this, you are in the right place here!

Single, married or divorced, to feel empowered, confident and emotionally free, you must have basic self-awareness, relationship and communication skills. I have figured it out and promise you, these skills are easy to learn.

Sylvia Stauffer Neff, Empowerment & Leadership Coach, Relationship Expert, teaches and trains WOMEN to be FEMININE leaders in their career and in life. A deep exploration into self-awareness leaves WOMEN empowered, confident, radiant and charismatic.

Sylvia has the gift, talent and wisdom to support MEN of all ages, successful and powerful men, who are experiencing stress, frustration, disappointment, hurt, divorce or a breakdown in their life. Relationships, money and career are deeply related. She helps MEN uncover what they need, how to speak those needs and she helps them resolve deeply confidential relationship issues.

Sylvia takes people from SCARCITY to THRIVING, from VICTIM to WINNING, from LEAVING their relationship in midlife, right when challenged, to STAYING and CREATING MAGIC, FREEDOM, RADIANCE and JOY.

24 years ago I started my own transformation. I took the long road to learning what it truly means to be an empowered and confident WOMAN. The cost of not knowing was enormous. It cost me my first marriage of 33 years, and it took me 7 years to heal my pain, and feel confident and empowered again.

“Little did I know that I was simply lacking the skills and the wisdom to create and maintain a lasting committed relationship. There was nothing wrong with him nor with me.”

Years and years of self-awareness work and a variety of trainings, including Kabbalah, EFT Tapping into Wealth training, and a certification in leadership coaching, have helped me get out of the darkness and into the light. My training has given me freedom, confidence and a new relationship. There is no need for you to go through the deep pain and suffering, years of learning and training to get to this place. It takes from 6 month to one year to get what you want. You can learn the skills and shed the past!

Is this you?

  • You are twisting yourself to get the attention and love you crave.

  • You feel lonely and stuck, and you cannot find your way to joy and freedom.

  • You are feeling unheard, unappreciated or disrespected.

  • You are sad because deep intimacy and connection is missing.

  • You are feeling frustrated, worn out and struggling.

  • You are feeling sad thinking this relationship is no longer working for you.

In my experience so many MEN and WOMEN are stuck in frustration and uncertainty, not knowing what to do about their conflicts, disagreements and the unspoken hurt. They think they will get over it or handle it later.

You may have read books about it, you may have asked your parents or your friends for advice about conflicts that you have experienced. You have listened to their advice and it did not work for you.

You may have the tendency to hide, suppress or numb your pain and struggles to make sure nobody knows about it. You may pretend or say that you are fine and doing well, when in fact you are not. Ultimately, you may think that this relationship is no longer working for you and then you end it. This is a very painful moment.

Here is what I uncovered for myself and my clients. It is the unspoken that has you trapped in a loss of power, loss of love, loss of intimacy and connection. You feel hurt and neglected.

  • You may think that your partner should know what you need.

  • You may even think that he or she does not care how you feel.

Does that sound familiar? The vicious cycle of blame, shame, upset and resentment starts right here.

In my experience, good relationships fall apart for that very reason. One unspoken upset on top of another builds resentment over time.

Love and resentment cannot co-exist!

Marriage is one of the most precious and most intimate commitments you will ever make to another person. You believe in lasting love and happiness. You want romance, trust and intimacy to last a lifetime. You want life to flow in harmony and ease. 

Give yourself the Gift of Coaching!

Here starts my work as an empowerment coach. I teach and coach you the relationship skills that will support you during rough times. You will learn the communication and self-awareness skills that will empower you to gracefully speak your needs, to stand in your power, just when you think of giving in or giving up.

Do not make the mistakes I made. All you may need is a set of new skills to create the relationship you want. You can learn those skills before you get married, during prime time of your marriage or later in life. The time is now!

My name is Sylvia Stauffer Neff, an Empowerment and Leadership Coach, and Relationship Expert. I have spent the last 15 years training and coaching, as well as developing programs to empower men and women to have the clarity, the confidence and self-awareness to shift their life from loneliness and burnout to creating a life and career they desire.

I am happy to say that I have recreated a fabulous life with my beloved, my 2nd husband, in the mountains of Colorado, using my very own tools to reclaim LOVE and INTIMACY. We just got married, are deeply in love and live a balanced, fulfilling and harmonious life. My 3 sons and their families are very important to me and I travel often to see them.

What is next for you?

Reaching out to for help to seek empowerment, to reclaim life in money, career or relationships, to redesign life in midlife or to reignite your marriage, to create peace and harmony, or to simply learn new skills is an act of LOVE. Do not suffer in silence!

Give yourself the gift of a ‘Get Unstuck Intensive’ session with me and change the way you see your relationship or life unfold forever.

My methodology is easy, efficient and effective. 

It takes a coach to speak to your reality, to shake up old patterns and to help you uncover what you cannot see.

I am here for you!

Sylvia E. Stauffer Neff

Empowerment & Leadership Coach - Relationship Expert